I'm 24M and my girl broke up with me on Monday. We got each other blocked now and she’s even threatening my job. We were together for 1 year and she was my everything. We were always talking always together and now we’re just nothing. She broke my heart and I let her slide with so much. I’ve tried calling her but now she’s gone to HR saying I’m harassing her. how can someone I loved so much turn into this and make life even worse for me?
I feel so alone. I drink every night and sleep all day. People say time heals but it feels like time’s dragging and I keep thinking about ending it. That’s not a joke. I know some people might think 1 year isn’t that deep but she made me feel loved like I had a future with her. She planned everything. Now I don’t know what to do.
Last updated on:2024-12-27T15:03:54+05:30
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You should probs stop drinking and you could always hang out with someone else. She’ll get mad jealous and be knocking on your door again. Kinda petty but it works. Just make sure the girl you're using to make her jealous doesn’t get hurt ya feel me
I’m not trying to make her jealous what hurts is she promised me everything showed me love and got me to open up. I used to be super uptight strict and shy but now we’re basically enemies.
Yo if you got proof like texts of her threatening you you should probably file a police report for a restraining order. That way you might keep your job and she could get fired if it comes to that since it sounds like HR ain't got your back.
You gotta stop calling her like for real. Go no contact. Quit begging her to come backit's just making things worse and pushing her further away.
Heartbreak is gonna suck no sugarcoating that. It’s rough lonely feels like it lasts forever and finding someone who actually listens the way you wanna vent? Pretty much impossible.
Doesn’t matter if it was 6 months, 2 years, or 10 moving on takes time and effort. The more you work on it, the faster you’ll start to feel better.
Focus on your stuff. Block her everywhere find distractions at home. It’s cool to have lazy in-bed all day kinda days but don’t let that take over. Get the important things done when you can.
Y’all work together?
Different shifts but same job
@CobraKid Oh ok..I was wondering why HR..yeah you better leave her alone. anyways it's going to take time to start feeling better I'm talking weeks..you can't rush it..it's a grief process just like a death. You will recover though.
I’d probs try to work somewhere else tbh. You’re only 24 it’s totally normal to feel this heartache. My first and second breakups had me feeling super low too like I didn’t know how I’d get through it so I get it. But I’m just glad I moved on and found love again. When you’re young, it’s hard to believe that’s even possible but it is. It’s tough right now but you’ll be okay I swear. Just take it one day at a time and take care of yourself