So like 2 years ago this girl broke up with me. I was mad in love with her. We were together for about a year (not super long I know) but near the end I was getting kinda cold so I don’t blame her for losing feelings.
That breaup seriously wrecked me tho. I’ve met some amazing and gorgeous girls since but I just can’t fall for them ‘cause they’re not her. starting to doubt if I’ll ever love like that again.
I feel so lame and kinda creepy for still thinking about her.
Cause it felt so weird I deleted all our pics and vids except one for the memories. But I keep looking at that one photo and imagining what it’d be like if we met again.
Thing is I don’t wanna meet her again. I know it’d just mess me up more.
Anyone got tips on how to finally move on? I’m so tired of being stuck like this.
Last updated on:2025-01-02T13:13:20+05:30
Comments (9)
Don’t feel bad that a relationship that was just a year long hit you this hard some people have relationships that last forever and still don’t feel the way you do.
The fact that you can love that deeply? That’s a gift.
Only thing I’d suggest is maybe move that pic off your phone? Not saying delete it just tuck it somewhere else.
Otherwise I’m with you on everything else in this thread including the bot.
Thanks so much for the sweet message
I could probs save the pic in a folder but trying to make a big deal outta it feels even more weird
Idk what’s best here like take it down and try to forget her or keep it and still feel like a creep
You gotta do some inner work still got some feelings you haven’t dealt with and you're just hopping from one relationship to the next. Focus on yourself until you're fully over this girl
yeah you're probs right about that
appreciate it bro
Try vibing with new people. I know it’s tough when you’re still stuck on the girl but life’s all about living and learning. Maybe chat with a new girl go on dates hang with your friends just do stuff to get her off your mind. If you’re still feeling her though you could totally reach out. Either way it’s a win. You might reconnect or it might help you start moving on. If that’s not your vibe just stay busy friends dates new hobbies whatever. Missing someone is normal no matter how long it’s been but you gotta keep pushing forward.
I’ve been meeting new girls but it’s always the same I just don’t feel it. Guess I’ll keep looking till the right one comes along.
I’ll do my best Thanks for the sweet message
When you’ve really loved someone for real it just doesn’t hit the same with anyone else
There might be prettier girls out there but when it’s real love you just can’t feel that way about anyone else
Looks pretty on point
It’s never really the same
@lovewarrior I get it I've been through that too