I was in my early 30s and fell hard for this guy in his late 40s. The age gap wasn’t even a thing for me didn’t bother me at all. Our parents set us up for marriage and we clicked so fast like I really thought we were vibing. We talked for months met up a few times and it felt like we balanced each other out. He showed me so much love and care I legit thought I’d found my person.
I even opened up about some health issues (which might be a thing in the whole marriage setup) but he was super chill about it. He straight up said “I don’t care about all that.” He made me feel so accepted flaws and all. he literally said I like you so nothing else matters. We spent more time together and then he introduced me to his parents as his life partner. I was over the moon. We even talked about kids family the future all of it.
And then out of nowhere two months later he just left. Like one phone call started all cute and sweet and by the end of it he broke up with me. It was like being thrown into total darkness. His reason? His parents age and health. That’s all he gave me. After that I was a complete mess crying nonstop while he was out living his best life with his friends.
Then just a few days later he started texting me again showing the same love and care like nothing happened. I was so broken. He played me and honestly it feels like he’s still playing me. why do people even do this? What’s the point of causing someone so much pain? I tried to make sense of his actions but I just couldn’t.
The only thing I’ve learned from this? You gotta fight your own battles. Take care of yourself. Your mental health is everything. But yeah I still wonder why he really left me. He could’ve just been honest. Still I’m focusing on working on my mental health… because I have to.
Last updated on:2025-01-09T17:39:57+05:30
Comments (4)
Screw these dudes. I'm so sorry babe. They’re like... emotionless psychos or something we’ll never get it. All we can do is not let it happen again.
Facts. Guys like this treat messing with women’s feelings like it’s a game. That kind of behavior broke me so bad I don’t even know if I can trust another guy again.
For your peace of mind you gotta try to move on. They’re giving major breadcrumb vibesshowing up when it works for them doing just enough to keep you hooked. If you’re not carefu you’ll end up stuck thinking this is normal.
Real love doesn’t just dip after a few months. It’s not supposed to feel off or shaky. The sad part? He probably knows exactly how much you’re into him.
Yeah he for sure knows how much I loved him. I think that’s why it was easy for him to mess with my feelings. I’m working on moving on and I know I’ll get there. But sometimes it feels like he used me then just tossed me aside.