A 25year old dude told me 32F he wouldn’t date someone older than him even though earlier that same day he said he cared about me. So I moved on and started dating someone else. The new guy is 26 and couldn’t care less about age. Now the first guy is all jealous and salty saying nasty stuff to me and making things awkward in front of our mutual friends. His best friend (25M) is dating my best friend (31F) so it’s extra messy. I’m just like… huh?? If he didn’t actually like me and used age as an excuse why is he acting like a jealous ex? Make it make sense.
Last updated on:2025-01-15T10:58:22+05:30
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Wow and here I was thinking I was wild for chatting with a 25yo at 28
So it's chill to be with a guy 10 yrs older but omg... 2 yrs younger?
Why’s it such a double standard? Like, guys in their 20s are lowkey so fine. Celebs tho? Nobody even cares.
Pretty sure your age had his ego feeling some type of way and now he’s realizing that’s on him. Instead of owning up to how dumb that was he’s just taking it out on you.
Pretty sure he’s just looking for some young clueless girl to boss around. Dude’s just lonely
Maybe date guys around your age they might be more mature
I dated this dude who was 37 and he got mad when I hugged a guy at the bar someone I’ve known forever. Turns out, he was kinda crazy too.
I’m 20 kinda ended up in this random thing with a 31 y/o F. It was chill at first but now it’s getting weird. Thinking of ending it soon hoping she’ll get it.
What you think you’re too old for her? Bruh that’s just years. You better have a reason other than age.
@Rivan91 I feel like she’s kinda too old for me it seemed fine at first but it got weird over time. feels like I’m using her for her money and car (like I don’t ask for cash or anything but she pays for my food a lot). Idk it’s giving groomed vibes tbh haha. She’s a good person tho I respect her just don’t think I really love her.
@IrisYom I get it. She’s kinda giving mom vibes and the way you said that makes you seem like you’re at least 50/50 about it. Or maybe you feel like you’re too grown to be the one getting taken care of. Either way it’s valid. Just be real with her. Tbh if I had the money I’d do the same. But I also expect him to pay for stuff right now new relationship and I’m broke lol.
@Rivan91 If you’re not in love with her you’re just wasting both your time.
Why would anyone wanna date a guy in his 20s lol. Like, if I was 35, I wouldn’t even date me back then. I didn’t get my life together till I hit 33 😂
Girl he’s treating you like a toy and acting like a little boy. He doesn’t wanna share but he’s not ready to fully commit either. You gotta bounce. Even if he’s into you, it doesn’t change the fact he’s not treating you right.
Yeah that’s what I figured. He only hit me up when he needed something. And now I’m not around anymore. knew it all along just hoped it’d be different.