Feel like I'm just done with dating relationships and all that. So, I fell hard for my best friend. It started casual no strings, but I caught feelings and had to end it since she was still out dating her choice no hate. Totally on me for catching feelings we both knew the deal. She’d still tell me about her dates and eventually, I told her to stop cause I couldn’t take it.
Fast forward years still single (got rejected by some girls I tried to move on with) cause I was stuck being delusional and a hopeless romantic. But tonight Christmas Eve on our day out… idk something happened. I crumbled couldn’t keep my emotions in check anymore and broke down. She said she knows how I feel but doesn’t feel the same.
And honestly I think I’m done with romance, love, dating, sex all of it. If it’s not with her it just doesn’t feel worth it.
Last updated on:2025-01-21T14:26:41+05:30
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Why want someone who won't pick you? It's not really about her it's about how she makes you feel. Maybe it's time to look at how you see yourself and start building your self-worth.
listen up. Focus on you. Be happy with who you are when you look in the mirror no need for someone else to fill that gap. A relationship should add to what you already got. And it's not just about if she’s right for you but are you right for her? Looks like you’re not and that's chill. There’s someone out there where you both vibe. But right now it's all about finding yourself.
@ustler89 Some people leave a mark on your soul like once you’ve had that vibe nothing else can fill the void except them. Doesn’t matter how much they change wanting them is just part of you now. I get that sometimes it’s about low selfesteem but other times that person is just so impactful you can’t let go. My ex left me months ago. She’s been cold, rude, and distant even though just a few months ago she was calling me her baby and talking about marrying next year. She’s everything I’ve always wanted. A perfect match for me. No matter how much I level up or try to move on I can’t shake the feeling that she’ll always have a piece of my heart. I love her more than anything I just wish she’d see it.
@UrUnique There's a word for what you're talking about it's called limerence.