How do you cope with a break up where the person tells you he is not stable emotionally and financially to be in a relationship ?

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How do you cope with a break up where the person tells you he is not stable emotionally and financially to be in a relationship ?

Last updated on:2025-07-18T06:45:03+05:30

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Jiajog
Jiajog 8 mths ago

It’s okay to feel hurt even if their reasons make sense. Give yourself time to heal

leomlil
leomlil 8 mths ago

It’s hard to cope when it feels like the timing wasn’t right. Just focus on taking care of yourself now

NIcolasVI
NIcolasVI 8 mths ago

Take it one step at a time. It’s hard now but you’ll come out stronger and find someone who’s ready for you.

vichii213
vichii213 8 mths ago

That’s such a tough thing to go through. Just remember their instability isn’t a reflection of your worth

rockstar
rockstar 8 mths ago

It’s never easy to hear that but it sounds like they’re trying to do what’s best for both of you.

susain
susain 8 mths ago

That’s such a tough situation. It’s hard but at least they were honest about where they’re at.

SwiftBeat64
SwiftBeat64 8 mths ago

what i dont understand tho is that some days after our break up he was still contacting me. maybe it was out of concern but i dont like this confusing situation

PancakeSmash
PancakeSmash 8 mths ago

if in terms of that u just need to accept for what it is. if he/she says that then let them be, there's nothing u can do or anything. If at some point this person is actually not interested in you, then its a no go. All u have to do is have the mindset "oh this one is not for me" and move on.

he/she mentioned that their not emotionally stable. A courage for them to admit that and a sign that it is a red light. it will save u from future problems. have a great day stranger