This breakup has been hard for me

I have been txting my sons dad and he has ignored every message for like a week and it hurts more every time.

Don't do it! You won't get the reaction you're hoping for and that will just crush your soul! Take it from someone who has been there! Don't waste your time on someone who isn't wasting their time on you!

I tried reaching out and got the coldest response ever , he responded like we weren't head over heals a few months ago , it's not worth it .

I am sorry to hear this and it sounds so tough for you. Try and be strong though as tough as it may be. Your focus is now YOU and your healing, maybe do something nice with friends or family on the day to distract and reaffirm you have support and can cope. Hang in there.

don’t let his birthday pull you back. Celebrate yourself instead you deserve it.

reaching out might make things harder for you

exactly. I want to text him so bad. I need him so much.

I reached out and he didn't even open it, so just be mindful of what it would do to you if it doesn't go as you'd hope.

I know those special days like birthdays and anniversaries can be tough, but look at how far you've come to keep yourself together. I would suggest not reaching out on those days but they totally expect you to be reaching out. Prove them wrong!

the urge is real but reaching out might just reopen old wounds. Focus on you

I get it it’s tough. But maybe give yourself some space. His birthday isn’t your responsibility your healing is

don't do it bc I had to learn that the hard bc I was 4 the longest time stayed in the same toxic relationship & sexual relationship & every time I asked him what r we all he ever said just friends its more common than u think & what makes us different is listening to u rant& rage& vent & the o talk. like what the fuck pls help I need help bc I'm thinking of going back to him bc I felt happy w/ him but also used. if u get what I mean