My ex keeps breaking no contact.He wants to be friends since we work at the same company and have same friends.i cannot see him as a friend and told him i need time to get clarity and move on. do you guys think i did the right thing ?
Last updated on:2025-07-27T14:09:02+05:30
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this hurt to read. the pressure to be cool and chill when you're still healing is so unfair. protect your peace. always
ugh i was in the same boat. same workplace same circle. every let’s be friends just reopened wounds. saying you need time isn’t mean it’s survival.
you 100% did the right thing. just cuz he wants to be friends doesn’t mean you have to be okay with it. you’re not responsible for making this easy for him.
You absolutely did.
Absolutely! It's for the best. I'm in the same situation. I'm trying to make new friends away from our friend group. I'm on day 32 of no contact.
Does it get better ?
@SwiftBeat64 yes, but it takes time. Some days are better than others. The weekends are hard bc I sit at home alone wondering what he's doing, when in reality, he's probably sitting at home alone too.