I am over a week into no contact and it is killing me! She has anger issues and blames me for everything.....while I accept some blame we were both definitely at fault, and her anger (especially when drinking is what broke us). I still think about her constantly and am sickened by the blame and thoughts of her moving on, which I think she may be doing. I am a mess and don't know what to do. please help! 😟
Last updated on:2025-07-31T05:44:02+05:30
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you’re not a mess. you’re a person who gave a damn and got hurt. it’ll get quieter not fast but it will.
the drinking n anger combo? yeah that shit wrecked me too. it’s not all on you. don’t let her rewrite the story.
i remember that exact feeling. when you’re doing no contact but your brain is still replaying everything on loop. the blame the whatifs the “what if she’s already with someone else. it’s brutal. i couldn’t eat for days.
just want you to know you’re not crazy for missing someone who hurt you. it’s the hardest thing caring and still walking away.