2 weeks into no contact now, and took the decision to not check for her being online lastnight and into today. What a difference that made as I couldn't create horrible narratives about what she was doing. Going to continue with that tonight.....it is hard, but so needed.
Last updated on:2025-08-04T03:59:02+05:30
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u finally realized watching her online felt worse than missing her.
that first night not checking is brutal. but wow, the space it gives. proud of you for protecting your peace
I just slipped and checked and think I altered a setting that means she will get notified. so annoyed at myself.
i used to stare at that green dot like it owed me something. sick how i let it ruin my night.
I can relate to this. I keep checking social media to see if he has reactivated his facebook and checking his ex page to see if they are hanging out again. I like the idea of not checking and creating stories of what he might be doing and how much fun he is having without me.
You ser certain patterns in the online activity and start putting together a story to join it all up. However, in doing that you are just creating more pain and things to torture yourself with and of course the invented story is always horrific. This has helped me, but lastnight was more difficult to do. Still managed though.
It is difficult, but necessary snd the freedom it gives you is good. be strong and determined. That is the only way.
I’m proud of you You are two weeks into no contact and I’m two days and I just cry. Keep going and get better
I feel your pain....it is so tough, but remember this is his loss and your opportunity to find peace and happiness in your self. Hang in there and stay strong.
@BlazeRay91 honestly, he misses me too because the break up was mutual so yeah
it does feel like progress, but I am a bit down again now.
You're making progress, proud of you!