1 week I was in no contact she suddenly appear to my house and seduce me

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1 week I was in no contact she suddenly appear to my house and seduce me.. what should I do? if she still doing that?? I refuse but she manipulate me.. and now I'm still suffering

Last updated on:2025-08-21T11:46:43+05:30

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domio
domio 6 mths ago

she knows no contact bothers she more than it bothers you. showing up uninvited is her way of keeping the power. you said no but she didn’t respect it, that’s on her not you.

xuser14440
xuser14440 6 mths ago

thank you. she's taking advantage my weakness

Lavangi01
Lavangi01 6 mths ago

i had an ex pop back up like that too. i thought ignoring would make him stop but it didn’t. it’s so draining when you’re already trying to heal and they play with your feelings. i’m sorry you’re in that place right now.

xuser14440
xuser14440 6 mths ago

I thought she's regretting after all but she's playing all over again .. 😔😔😔 I'm still in pain right now

lovechat
lovechat 6 mths ago

that happened to me too. i told myself i was strong but every time he showed up i gave in. it pissed me off later cause i knew he just wanted control. i felt like trash after.

xuser14440
xuser14440 6 mths ago

don't do it anymore.. acceptance is the key.

Unhealed
Unhealed 6 mths ago

You've got to be strong. Remind yourself of how awful you will feel afterwards.

xuser14440
xuser14440 6 mths ago

thank you

xuser14440
xuser14440 6 mths ago

thank you. She still choose her affair right now.. she's not sincerely sorry to me.. I'm done chasing, begging. I'm sick of it

Unhealed
Unhealed 6 mths ago

Never chase or beg. Know your worth.

xuser14440
xuser14440 6 mths ago

@Unhealed exactly..

PhoenixRise
PhoenixRise 6 mths ago

Don’t let her in again! ❤️
It only sets the heatbreak back to the beginning. She’s uses you and don’t want you to move on.
I know it’s hard when you love a person, but you deserves better.🙏🏻
I did the same to my eks long time ago, I didn’t want him to find another and move on.
We tried again, I held on to long but we ended 3 times worse and more heartbroken. 💔

xuser14440
xuser14440 6 mths ago

I will not do it again. I'm sick of it. I'm done!

Unhealed
Unhealed 6 mths ago

@xuser14440 once you make up your mind, the healing begins! 👏