what is you suggestion?

some people go grab drinks or talk to strangers after a breakup. sometimes it makes the loneliness louder, sometimes it helps for a night. depends on the person.

i did hang out with strangers sometimes, not to date but just to distract myself. it helped in little ways, like laughing at dumb stuff with someone who didn’t know my story.

it can bring a new perspective but it's incredibly vulnerable to meet strangers unhealed. predators can smell weakness and if you’re searching for someone to make you feel whole, a narcissist will be that for you. only to lure you into their trap. stay single until you can deny love that doesn't meet your standards. remember that you only accept the love you think you deserve.

i tried that once. random meetups from apps just to fill the silence. ended up feeling worse, like i was using people. hated myself for it.