He started using Bumble after two days of breakup and he met a girl after one week. Technically I didn’t have the right to inquire about that but it impacted me so deeply, like how he could move ok that fast after whatever we shared which was too deep and meaningful
Last updated on:2025-09-07T02:23:02+05:30
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it’s rough when one person jumps into apps right away. it can look like they didn’t care, but sometimes it’s just how they deal. either way, it makes the one left behind feel gutted.
i remember seeing his profile on a dating app and my chest hurt. i kept thinking our time must not have meant anything if he could swipe so quick. i know that sting.
mine downloaded tinder the same week we ended. i wanted to throw my phone. it felt like everything we had was trash to him. i was disgusted.
i had the exact same thing happen to me and it hurt SO bad. it just makes you think they never loved you and makes you second guess the relationship. if i’m honest the thing that worked for me was no contact for a while and if you are meant to meet again you will. no contact will help you to start focusing on you and fixing yourself. the fact he moved on so quick says way more about him than it does you. you’ve got to know your worth because when you know it you will be able to move on even if it’s slow 🤍
I agree. We broke up two weeks ago and this is the second day of no contact. I still have all our pictures and memories in the gallery and sometimes it makes me so sad but I dont have the heart to delete it yet. As you said, I am doubting if everything that we had was real or if he ever loved me truly. I read the chats of him with the girl who he found from Bumble. He talked in a flirty way just like how he used to talk to me. When the girl asked him why did you break up with your ex, he replied that it was not worth it. It hurt so much cuz I put him on a pedestal over anyone and anything and this is what I got in return. I started comparing myself with her too, maybe I am not just good enough or too much for him to handle. The kind of ugly you feel hits hard which affects your self-esteem
Sams here... Just one day after the break up he was back on ever single dating app...
Tomorrow it'll be 3 weeks since the break up and I know for sure he is already meeting other girls for distraction.
And that's just what it is: They're distracting themselves because they want to avoid sitting with their feelings. It will hit them later.
We're processing the break up in a healthy way but they're not mature enough to do so.
I am glad that he is showing me his true colors now.
I can feel you🥹I really thought this guy to be different than other men but then at the end of the day, men are quite the same and they’re unpredictable
@JoyBuzz532 True! It really stunned me how many women share the same experience.
I was so sceptial in the beginning when I started dating him and he'd always say that he is not like other guys.
But in the end he damaged me more than any other man I ever met.
But it's okay. With every day that goes by, I realize more and more that I can live without him. I am still breathing 😄
There are better things waiting for us! Stay strong! 🌸
@Athina09 Men always say they love truly and what not but a woman’s love is unconditional and I have seen it so many times. We can do anything for the man we love whereas men often love with conditions and brag.