I only broke up with him 5 days ago and i’m really struggling. I begged for his love for too long ( years ) but couldn’t seem to let go. i held onto the person he was right at the start. i want to message him because i can’t stop looking at his socials it’s driving me crazy. all i want is love and i wanted it from him. i want to go back and try again but deep down i know he would be the same all over again.
Last updated on:2025-10-15T03:55:03+05:30
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have you tried journaling or writing everything you feel before looking at his socials? sometimes seeing it on paper helps calm the mind
i know the urge to message is strong, but staying no contact even for a few more days helped me finally breathe and think clearly
ugh i feel this so much 😭 i begged for years too, kept holding onto the “good start” version of him… it’s brutal realizing it won’t change
hello stranger, he just broke up with me one month ago because i literally caught him cheating. in the first few weeks i cried and i begged God to take away all the pain. Over our relationship i am constantly begging him to change and even apologize to me when he did wrong. Yesterday i broke no contact since I missed my period and I want him to know since he's responsible too and he basically ignored me. So what i did is to compose myself and told myself it's okay and literally i did girllll. So pls cry all you want because one day you just wake up and feel nothing for him anymore, trust me...
feel u
i broke up with him a week ago but actually we were on a situationship not on an official relationship ‘cause he said that he’s young and he wants to have fun
but i discovered that he has a new girl
i can’t get how he could start a new life so early
he gave me everything and now the fact that he doesn’t text me makes me feel bad ‘cause i think he’s involved in a new relationship and he’s giving everything to another person
before zero contact he said that he wants a life with me but not now
i can’t wait with this hope
i can’t pause my life for a promise which probably won’t be fulfilled