it's been 40 days with no contact I thought if I didn't break no contact this time he will and he will apologize he will try for us anything but I realized nobody tried for this relationship except me and when I stopped everything between us stopped I don't think he even wants me back or think about me ...
Last updated on:2025-11-14T01:39:02+05:30
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when you think about him not trying, do you feel more sad or more angry? like which one hits you harder right now?
I feel sad tbh I don't feel angry anymore just sadness it really does hurt how after everything I have done he doesn't seem to care to put half the effort to save the. relationship and yet still thinks he didn't do anything wrong and Iam the one who ruined it for " not appreciating his efforts"
reminding myself that no response is a response. people who want to fix things, do. you don’t need to chase closure from someone who’s showing you where their effort ends.
you are right thanks for your motivation i really appreciate it I will think about this words more
i remember hitting that same wall realizing the only reason things kept going was because i kept trying. when i stopped, the silence was so LOUD. it’s brutal when you see that they were never fighting for it the way you were. i promise that moment of clarity hurts like hell but it’s also the start of getting free.
I swear " they were never fighting for it the way you were " Hits so real like omg it's so frustrating, sad and heartbreaking at the same time but I guess it makes things easier to accept cause you know once you are done with it everything is done there is nothing holding you back
you got this.
you will get through this
I hope so
@N01N you will.
it always feels we won't but we will.