Me and him have been in no contact for 5 days now and it is the case that Sunday he asked me if i still want us to be together after he disrespected me and hung up on me while i was still speaking, during the day. He went as far as blocking me after hanging up and later that night he apologized. I didn't say anything after seeing his message so he called again at night asking the question and my response was that i leave that on him to decided. Monday he texted me and i told him I'll get back to him when i get home and i never did(truth be told I'm tired of being the one chasing him and saving our relationship. I just wanted him to fight for us this time after he messed up and cheated on me). He hasn't called or texted to ask me anything. He's been quiet. I don't know if i should just call and end things with him or not say anything.
I do have to say though that the silence is making me drown coz i feel like I'm waiting for someone who just doesn't carešš
Last updated on:2025-11-16T22:20:32+05:30
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when he apologized that night, did it feel real to you or more like he was scared of losing the access he has to you?
He was scared of losing access to me because he called again later asking what i have to say about his apology (the paragraph he wrote). Then the next day he didn't reach out to me till yesterday when he saw my missed calls.
when i felt like this, i usually paused before reaching out. just sat with the question āwould calling him make me feel better or worse after?ā if the answer was worse, i stayed quiet until i was clearer.
my ex used to hang up on me then come back hours later acting like i should fix it. that silence after the chaosā¦ it feels like torture. like youāre stuck waiting for someone who already checked out. iām really sorry youāre in that loop, it messes with your head so bad
iām so unbelievably sorry thatās so horrible. i think do what you think will be best for YOU. this man cheated on you, disrespected you, he does not deserve your time whatsoever. once a cheater always a cheater and nobody deserves to be cheated on. i think if you reach out and tell him this can no longer continue youāll feel more at ease. and if he keeps bothering you block him!! š©·š©·
I will definitely consider your words, thanks caitieā„ļø