I was the one that broke up with my boyfriend 2 days ago. ever since I don’t know how I feel and stuck in between if I made the right decision. I know it takes time but how can I find out what I really feel and want. I feel a bit numb atm. we have agreed to go no contact for 30 days after tomorrow, then he will pick up his things.
Last updated on:2025-11-17T16:17:13+05:30
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You know what led to the breakup and if you feel that you can't stay in a relationship leave it even if leaving feels wrong... Don't stay in a bad relationship because you are afraid of leaving
the first days are chaos. sometimes giving yourself the full no contact window without pressure lets the real emotions show up on their own.
i remember that numb feeling so clearly. i ended things with someone i loved and my whole body just… shut off for a bit. i kept thinking “did i mess up” even though i knew something wasn’t working. breakups you choose can hurt in this weird, confusing way
it’s normal to feel that way. with time you will look at the situation clearly. use those 30 days to reflect on what you really want