I don’t why I keep going back to him when he makes me unhappy and with this heaviness in my chest , he told me I’m delicate and said don’t come here to dump all your problems on me , constantly feeling like a burden when I just wanted to open up how I really feel . I hate how men make you feel so small
Last updated on:2025-11-22T07:08:02+05:30
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when he said that to you… what did your gut do? like did it feel familiar or did it hit you out of nowhere?
u can talk to me hun
when i get that heavy chest feeling with someone, i usually step back for a bit and ask myself if i actually feel safe with him. not answer right away, just sit with it. it tells me a lot.
i kept going back to a guy who called me “too sensitive” like it was an insult. every time i tried to be honest, he’d act like i was asking for too much. that “burden” feeling sticks so deep.
Same thing I dealt with, the men we love and want to protect us, are the ones who make us feel so invisible. you did the right thing to block him no matter what you say they somehow don't understand.