I miss himmmm

when you say you miss talking to him, is it him specifically you miss or the comfort and routine he gave you? sometimes those feel the same when everything’s fresh.

KindVibes873 3 mths ago

its him 100% we've been broken up for 4 months but only recently cut contact. and its him I miss not just the feeling

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😢

when my ex left, the silence was the worst part. i missed the stupid good morning texts and seeing his name pop up. it didn’t get better fast, but it did get softer. like the ache stayed, just stopped stabbing every second. you’re not crazy for missing him.

your pain is warranted, it's still very raw, you're still navigating the whole process of not being with him. I don't know when but I'm sure the pain will ease eventually as I'm in the same situation

Yes. It will get better. Practice some introspection, it helped me see I saw red flags but decided to ignore them because I just didn't want to start all over with someone else. And yes! Journaling is great! Make this time all about you and your feelings as the priority. Talk it over with good friends or express your feelings in paper. You're half way the 30 days no contact! Im on day 17 and I'm at the stage where I'm absolutely sure he was not good for me and need to cut ties with him entirely.

start journaling write it in a book like you talking to them. it helped me