my first thanksgiving without my ex gf

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it feels weird not having a Thanksgiving without my ex gf to say anything happy about and honestly l can't get over the face it's really over and I'm not use to it at all or on Halloween either so why does it feel so odd to feel like this so much is this normal or is it fine to feel this way or is it just me

Last updated on:2025-12-03T20:04:27+05:30

Comments (10)

Ragajim
Ragajim 3 mths ago

do certain memories with her hit you harder on holidays or is it more the silence and change of routine that feels strange?

Kylejaxks
Kylejaxks 3 mths ago

both

CryDust
CryDust 3 mths ago

holidays hit different after someone leaves. it’s okay to just get through them one at a time.

Kylejaxks
Kylejaxks 3 mths ago

yea

Alonebuddy
Alonebuddy 3 mths ago

my first holiday season after my breakup was brutal. everything felt empty and out of place. it’s like the dates on the calendar kept reminding me of what i lost. you’re not alone in that at all

Kylejaxks
Kylejaxks 3 mths ago

thx

gayclown42
gayclown42 3 mths ago

I'm in the same situation, it sucks

Kylejaxks
Kylejaxks 3 mths ago

it sucks

WildSun457
WildSun457 3 mths ago

yeah it sucks not being able to share special holidays with them. but we have to make new habits. maybe next year we will be in a better place, looking at the past as a lesson.

Kylejaxks
Kylejaxks 3 mths ago

yea