i broke up with my bestfriend two days ago because i am not in the right mental state to be in a relationship because i need to love myself first. he respected that, but i immediately regretted it because why cant i grow WITH him? and he told me he wants a day or two to process. anyway it’s been 2 days, do i check in or wait? what do i do. i miss him he was exactly who i wanted and i don’t want to lose that because i want to love myself
Last updated on:2025-11-29T02:51:36+05:30
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My boyfriend just broke up with me for the same reason. Honestly, when you said "Why cant I grow with him" I felt it in my heart haha
Go talk to him. You sure are still an important person for him, he is just offended (rightfully). Explain what you fill and that you understand now that what you said was a mistake and you want to talk to him again and be his friend. Im sure hell get it
i feel like he is probabaly just confused and trying to process what you said, and the feelings he is having. id wait for him to reach out. or start with something small like, "how are you?" yk something to ease into the conversation. Its okay that you feel you have found that person that you want to grow with, but if you are having a hard time, you dont want to make it hard for both of you by allowing those problems into the relationship. unless you are sure you can grow alongside this person, you dont want to put your mental health on a back burner just for it to feel good.