he decided that we have cool off to our relationship he said that it was for the better of us. But for me we can be better together, but apparently I am the problem I caused it I tried to give him space since nov 20smth I lessen the interaction for him to think but I feel my present so he wont take it as I go a way. But this friday he decided that we need a break (cool off) I was so devastated bc He made a mistake to me for 1yr but I stayed to him, now that I made just a mistake this is how he wanted for us. But what abt me I carried it for a YEAR when Im w him I forget everything, I accept him even thoug I didn’t hear any proper apologize.:( so please help me
Last updated on:2025-12-02T16:08:47+05:30
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when he said he needed this “cool off,” did he explain what he’s actually planning to do with that time, or was it just dropped on you like that?
he wanted to rest and focus on himself and to have a right sleep bc after our fight he said that he always sleep in morning not in night.
i’m really sorry you’re dealing with this. when stuff feels unfair like this, i’ve learned to pull back a little and just watch their actions. it helps me see what’s really mine to carry and what isn’t.
I could tell my ex was off for months and I held us together. it was mentally draining. when he ended up breaking up with me I called him out on it and he acknowledged it. long story short I felt RELIEF when it was over. Obviously I cried for multiple weeks but relief is coming your way. let go of him, calm and tranquility is headed your way when you do
for me, its very wrong timing bc last december it was also my worst month I didn’t celebrate my christmas and newyear with happiness but I got an anxiety and depression, I hate that its going again this month..
@lillys05 the holidays can be a hard time. I’m sorry you’re going through that. try to spend some time with some friends and or family. Anyone who is not going to trigger you.
omg, I thought I am the only one that go through this phase. But I feel manipulated too
i went through something so similar where my ex messed up for MONTHS and i still held everything together, then the moment i slipped once he acted like i was the whole problem. that imbalance messes with your head so bad. you’re not crazy for feeling devastated.