This is so weird sometimes I'll HATE him for giving up on us when I tried over and over to make it work and then other times I'll miss him. im currently on day 20 and I sometimes miss him so much I forget we arent together anymore like im going delusional and then I remember we aren't together anymore and it sucks. but we've been officially broken up for 4 months why does it not feel any better.
Last updated on:2025-12-10T01:01:05+05:30
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when you remember you’re not together anymore, what hits hardest—the loss of them or the loss of what you imagined could’ve been?
the loss of him
day 20 or 4 months, the timeline doesn’t really matter. grief isn’t neat. i found it helped to let myself feel both the hate and the missing him, instead of trying to force one or the other. it’s messy but normal.
I’m right there in the same boat as you. it has been 8 months for me and it has gotten harder some. we were together for three years and were very close some days reality hits me again that he really is gone and I crash all over again. i get so angry that he walked away and didn’t bother to at least try to fix us. I can say the emotions will start to fade over time you’ll still feel sad but the emotions will get better over time