that’s me. hopeless and stupid. I can’t help but miss her. Ik she’s with someone else. but I still want her to come back. I want to ask to try again after they break up if they do. I hope they do. god I hope they do.
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I understand completely and I feel the same. Together we were great but when he was away from me it was always distance. Avoidant are hard to understand. I have so many questions. I hope you find peace in whatever happens.
when you imagine her coming back, do you picture things actually being different… or is it more about wanting the pain to stop right now?
oh mannn I feel you so much. I've fallen madly in love with an ex, we're good friends but he now has a gf of 2 years and I was praying for him to leave her to be with me. the pain I feel is like no other but I'm getting over him slowly now. I'm too much for him to handle so he says I disturb his peace. I'm not going to change who I am for anyone so I'll keep being me just the way I am
when i was in this headspace, the only thing that helped even a little was not feeding the hope. i didn’t kill it, i just stopped checking, stopped imagining the “after they break up” future. hope like this kept reopening the wound for me.
that must be hurting so bad. i hope u get through it. having hope like this can really be painful to wait on someone u love
knowing she is with someone else but still secretly hoping it crashes and burns so she come back. i hated myself for that hope, felt stupid and weak, but it was just attachment refusing to die. that missing doesn’t mean you’re pathetic. it means you cared HARD.