A few days ago my girlfriend and I broke up. At first she just said we weren’t meant for each other. Two days later I reached out about her clothes still being at my place and that led to us talking again. We uncovered the main issues behind the breakup: I played too many video games didn’t give her enough attention and avoided meeting her friends (though I had met them once and I was open to working on that). We started talking romantically again though not officially dating.
But two days after that last night she said she was done with my “BS.” She wanted me to stop talking to certain girls. I didn’t have a problem with that so I unadded them on Xbox and left the Snapchat group chat but I forgot to unadd them there. Now she says she doesn’t trust me and is fully done even though I want her back.
During the emotional storm last night I tried everything I could to salvage things. She agreed to call in a few hours to talk and maybe meet in person afterward. I feel like I’ve run out of ideas. I don’t know what the right approach is what to say or if waiting a few weeks or months could actually help us reconnect. Part of me feels like after a month the chances are gone. I just need direction.
Last updated on:2026-02-24T19:42:03+05:30
Comments (4)
do you feel like she was already halfway out before the snapchat thing? sometimes when someone’s looking for “bs,” they’re already preparing to leave.
you deserve better
i was in that spot, the more i tried to convince and prove, the more power i handed over.
this whole push pull thing… i’ve lived it. the “we’re not meant for each other” then romantic again then suddenly you’re the villain. it’s exhausting. i once cut people off, promised to change EVERYTHING, and still got told i wasn’t trustworthy. that emotional storm where you’re scrambling to fix it? i know that panic in my chest