i’ve been waiting for this one guys for nearly 2 years and for a bit of that he didn’t know who i was l. ever since then we’ve been so on and off and a month ago he told me he loved me and admitted everything. a few days later and we slam back into no contact because he didn’t care about me enough, about what we where. but every since then i can’t stop missing him, i don’t know if i make up a version of him that i cope with or not. but i really want to add him back and tell him how much i’ve missed him and work it out with him again. my heart feels heavy everyday when i wake up and realise his presence is not in my life. i wonder how far we would of made it. do i add him back and tell him how much his absence affected me or do i leave it and wait for him to come back.?
(that’s how little my self - worth is when it comes to him)
Last updated on:2026-03-03T19:14:03+05:30
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my chest tightened at the part where you said that’s how little your self worth is with him. do you think adding him would actually change how he shows up, or would it just restart the same cycle again?
Don't be hard on yourself, You love deep and u wanted to make it work no matter what, its love not little self worth, u know who you are and u r worthy! if he can't see your worth, u can't make him see it. I hope we all heal snd move on from ppl who never deserved us
hey i did the on and off thing too he said he loved me then vanished like it meant nothing. i missed the version of him who chose me, not the one who kept leaving. that fantasy kept me hooked.
My darling, if your absence affected him the way his absence affects you, he would come back. These guys take advantage of knowing that we will always be a safety net. If he wanted to be in your life, he would. He walks out because he knows the door is open for him to do so. Don't drain yourself. Close that door for good. You are worth more.