my ex, everytime he tells his brother to tell me stuff, the sweet whispers kind of words but when I come back into his life? I get burned, when I ask he would say it's not the truth. Just yesterday his cousin told me the guy is in a serious relationship, I then blocked the guy. his brother told me that he says I should unblock him, he loves me , and that there's no such thing about him dating. He's currently angry at his cousin, so I heard. i have a past of blocking and unblocking him but this time I really want to leave him fr.
Last updated on:2026-03-10T03:04:17+05:30
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when you blocked him this time did it feel a little different inside? like you’re actually done, or does part of you still feel pulled back when his brother says those things?
this time it's different, we're done .
honestly the thing that helped me was keeping the block and sticking to it, even when people tried to pass along “he misses you” stuff. once i stopped reopening the door, the chaos around him finally got quieter.
i had an ex who kept sending messages through friends too, sweet words one day then cold the next when i actually showed up. that push and pull messed with my head for way too long
where did it end up? what was the final nail to the coffin?
you know the truth already
what would you advice to me?
He doesn't value you, move on
I would just move on
ignore him, he's an ex for a reason. please remember yourself, remember the disrespect, remember to choose YOURSELF this time. it's time for you to find your peace.
true, the question that hurts me is why did he keep on dragging me along? why does he keep sending flowers and chocolates? no im done.
@JoyfulLuv215 avoid him. make him know that he disrespected you, so why should you let him back in??? remember you can heal if you let go, I know it'll hurt but it'll all be worth it.