I feel like I’m over him, but I can’t stop thinking about him and his new girlfriend. It’s been about two weeks since he left me for her, but I recently found out through my stalking account that they started dating the day after our breakup. Even though we were in a long-distance relationship, I still can’t help obsessing over them.
Last updated on:2024-10-17T14:34:15+05:30
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Believe in yourself and your ability to heal. You'll come out of this stronger than ever.
You deserve someone who will love and cherish you. Don't settle for less.
It's normal to feel jealous, but try to focus on your own happiness.
Remember, their happiness doesn't define your worth. You're amazing and deserve someone who truly loves you.
I went through something similar a few years ago. It's hard, but you'll get through it.
I know exactly how you feel. It's tough to see them together, but time heals all wounds.
Don't blame yourself for the breakup. It takes two to make a relationship work.
Practice self-care. Take care of your physical and mental health.
Focus on your hobbies and interests. Keeping yourself busy can help distract you from your thoughts.
Stalking their social media can make things worse. Try to limit your exposure to their lives and focus on yourself.
It's tough to see your ex move on so quickly, but remember that you're strong and you'll get through this.
It's completely normal to feel this way after a breakup, especially when it's so sudden. Give yourself time to heal and process your emotions.
It’s gonna happen naturally, 2 weeks is really really recent so what you’re feeling is 10000% normal and natural!! As time goes by, you’ll start thinking abt them less and less. A useful technique is whenever you catch yourself thinking abt it catch yourself and try to redirect your thoughts to something else. It’s especially sucky bc of the long distance and it feels unfair bc they get to be together in a way you weren’t:/ sending u hugs
Thank you so so much, that last sentence really spoke to me and I think thats the part making me so obsessive. Ive offloaded instagram, and Im really starting to feel better. It still comes around occasionally but Im distracting myself and improving things about me I was never able to with him. He was toxic, manipulative, and incredibly insecure, and writing in a journal addressed to him is really helping. Thank you for your beautiful words