I checked her tiktok reposted today and one said "I would go to bed most nights crying the way you treated me" which makes it look like I was a horrible person to her when I wasn't. if anything she was worse to me she shut me down when I would try say how I felt and ignore me for hours. I just want to know why she is doing this
Last updated on:2026-03-22T22:39:43+05:30
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she might have communicated thousands of times before she left what she wanted? and maybe thats the reason she slept crying every night? she might have told you how she wants to be treated ( how is it about you being horrible person)?
yaa because it is possible she didnt liked the way u treated her so in her pov u were the villian and if she felt that way maybe you should look inwards and reflect things up deeply. not everyone potrays villian maybe she felt too too much for you and ur actions same repetitive mistakes hurted her again and again thats why now she likes being single now.
you should give a benefit of doubt to yourself first. and if u 100% think ur right than losing the person shouldn't hurt you that much.
you think she’s posting that because she actually believes it… or because it’s easier to paint you as the bad guy than sit with her own part in it
she wants to paint you out as the villain. it's fine you will always be a villain in someone else story. you know the truth and I'm sure your friends and family do too.
raise above it keep strong and carry on and whatever you do DO NOT REACT to any of it
it's hard not to react but I haven't contacted her about it, my parents wanted me to tell her mum about it though but I thought it best not to
yeah checking his reposts only kept me stuck.
oh same my ex used to post stuff that made it look like i was the villain too.meanwhile i was the one getting ignored and shut down anytime i tried to talk about my feelings. it messes with your head so bad. you start questioning your own reality
that's my situation aswell
This has been a struggle for me too, the narrative he is telling everyone. It's definitely a daily problem internally to feel such injustice while maintaining no contact. Just know you're not alone in feeling this way. Keep your head up, maybe remove her for your own sanity and healing.
Everyone experiences their own feelings. Perhaps her treatment of you was your worst experience of her and perhaps you voicing your feelings and thoughts when she wasn't emotionally ready to deal with something of that depth was something that was the worst part of her experience. Her narrative doesn't define the truth nor does yours truly convey the truth she feels is true. Everyone copes in different ways and sometimes telling yourself something hurt more than it actually did is a way to justify behaviour. But none the less don't let her words drive you towards reacting. That's her story now and you have your own to write in the meantime. Don't focus on what was or what she's doing, focus on what you can do for yourself in this time. Take time to make time for the only person who should be mattering to you right now, yourself.
yea u right