I had been thinking about ending things with him and was just waiting for the right time. But today, out of the blue, he texted me saying that I’m bad for his soul and Christian life, or something like that, and broke up with me. I was planning to end things, but hearing this was completely heartbreaking. I don't even understand his reason—it doesn’t seem valid at all. I’m glad it’s over because our life goals were very different, but I’m not sure how to feel right now... I’m truly hurt.
Last updated on:2024-10-17T16:00:17+05:30
Comments (13)
You deserve someone who appreciates you for who you are. Don't settle for less.
Sometimes, people hurt others because they're hurting themselves. Don't take it personally.
It's a good thing you both realized your life goals were different. That's a major factor in a healthy relationship.
Maybe he was projecting his own insecurities onto you. That's not your fault.
It's unfair that he blamed you for his spiritual journey. You deserve better.
That's a really hurtful way to end things. It sounds like he was looking for a reason to justify his decision.
I guess he was just looking for an excuse to end the relationship. The fact that it's something you too wanted to happen , you should be happy. Now you must be facing some problems because of the reason he gave you. If you want you can go and talk to him about this or just ignore the reason bcz it doesn't make any sense. Also , take good care of yourself and let yourself heal before jumping into the next one. Take care.
Am happy it ended,but the way he ended it made me question how I loved him in the 1st place...tnx for ur advice fr(ToT)
@Blondie11 Well , people change. The person you loved might be a good guy at the time. So you don't really need to question your choice.
@Phillip22 What hurt me the most was the way he avoided me as if I were a devil trying to snatch his soul. He told me to visit the church and get baptised asap. I rly can't believe this
@Blondie11 Well yeah that's a very rude thing to say to someone , especially to your partner. It might be tough for you to really comprehend that statement and i know that it might be haunting you. But the best you could do is forget it (i know it's tough) , but just don't be bothered by anything he said. Him saying anything doesn't make it true. You know what kind of a person you are and nobody can tell you that.
@Phillip22 Tnx fr...I was rly fighting back tears when he said that...tnx again
@Blondie11 My pleasure. Stay strong. Take care :)