A lot has transpired, and everything stems from him. I’ve known him for seven years, during which we shared many conversations. Now, I find myself questioning how much of it was genuine.
Two months ago, he disappeared completely and blocked me everywhere without any explanation. A month later, his girlfriend reached out to me twice. This prompted me to investigate, and I discovered he was in a relationship.
After realizing how long they had been together, I sent him a farewell email, unsure if he ever read it. I shared my final thoughts, believing that was the end of our story.
Then, tonight, I received a message from him. He revealed he’s been with her for two years and admitted that what we had was wrong. He expressed his love for her, stating he couldn’t jeopardize their relationship and that he never wanted to talk to me again.
Until recently, I had no idea she even existed. I suspect she didn’t know about me either.
It’s heartbreaking to realize that while he was telling me he loved me, missed me, and wanted to be with me, those were all lies.
The person I trusted with my heart was merely using me.
I’m left with so many questions and so much left unspoken. I never meant anything to him; I was just someone he wanted for my body. Is that all I’m worth?
Last updated on:2024-10-18T13:45:19+05:30
Comments (7)
Don't let him control your emotions. You're worth more than he gave you credit for.
He valued me only for my body..." Yes.
"... but is that all I'm worth?" NO.
I understand how difficult it is to hear someone say all the right things that tug at your heartstrings, only to realize they have no intention of following through. It’s painful. It hurts so deeply. I’m truly sorry you’re experiencing this. But what he wanted from you and what you truly deserve are two entirely different things. When someone devalues us, it’s easy to assume that’s all we are. However, those who use and belittle others are simply reflecting their own struggles with self-worth. This has nothing to do with you. You are worthy. One day, you will meet someone who recognizes that and truly values you. Unfortunately, he is not that person. It will take time to heal from the betrayal you've faced. His actions of using and discarding you are reprehensible, and it’s completely natural to feel devastated by this. Just remember, this situation reflects his character, not your value as a partner.
You deserve someone who treats you with respect and honesty. Don't let this experience define your worth.
It's never easy to discover someone you trusted has been lying to you. You're not alone in this. Many people have gone through similar experiences.
It's incredibly hurtful to be lied to and manipulated. Remember, you deserve better.
Why would you even want such a person 8n your life. it's good that he is gone. you are free and now you have a chance to be with someone who genuinely cares. Your questions are all valid. you think the answers and explanations would make you feel bette maybe because your self worth took a hit with how he behaved. please do not connect the two. his behavior is solely his behaviour for his selfish reasons. it's not a reflection of how you are. if you hadn't been suffering the other girl would. both of you should dump him i feel
not worth it...don't waste your time