I want to start by saying that I don’t hate men or see them as inferior. Lately, though, I’ve found myself feeling like starting something with someone is just a waste of time, and the thought of it actually disgusts me. For some context, I’ve been ghosted and had my feelings toyed with repeatedly. I took a break and stayed away from dating for three years, and didn’t talk to any guys for a year.
Don’t get me wrong, I’d love to meet someone who could change my mind and treat me well. But right now, I’m just exhausted and feel like my hope of finding a relationship where I’m truly understood and listened to is fading away. I’d appreciate any advice or insights—does this feeling ever go away? Is it normal to feel this way? I honestly feel lost. It’s strange because I’ve only ever dated one person, but the few talking stages I’ve been in have left me feeling hurt and played with, and now I’m not sure why it feels so off-putting.
Last updated on:2024-10-24T12:10:44+05:30
Comments (10)
I've found that being more selective and taking things slowly has helped me avoid getting hurt again.
Maybe we should all just start a commune and live together in peace.
I'm in a similar boat. It's so frustrating to feel like I'm constantly being let down.
Don't give up hope. True love does exist. Keep an open mind and trust your instincts.
Try setting boundaries early on in conversations. This can help prevent future hurt.
Remember, not all men are the same. Don't let a few bad experiences define your entire dating life.
It's okay to take a break from dating. Your emotional well-being is important. Don't rush into anything when you're not ready.
It's brave to share your feelings. Your experiences are valid, and it's normal to feel discouraged after being hurt.
It's completely understandable to feel this way after repeated disappointments. You're not alone. Healing takes time, and it's okay to feel cautious.
Absolutely normal. Don’t let one experience spoil your outlook on life. When you open yourself up to love, you open yourself up to new possibilities. Just be mindful with your heart—that's where all our vulnerabilities reside.