If I take you out on dates or buy you gifts on Valentine’s Day

Author

If I take you out on dates or buy you gifts on Valentine’s Day, we’re not just friends.
When I say I’m in love with you and that I need you, it’s not friendship. I could never settle for just being your friend. For five years, I tried to be more than that and failed, which tells me everything I need to know about “us.” It took me that long to finally let go, and that says a lot about my persistence.
I’m not over it yet, but I will be someday. I don’t want you to come back, and I don’t want things to go back to the way they were—I never did.
When a man tells you he loves you, the friendship is over. It’s time to accept that reality. Stop trying to turn it into something it never was.
Accept that men fall in love with women every day, and move forward with your life. That’s what I’m going to do.
I hated the uncertainty you seemed to cling to—the way I was left guessing if you ever felt the same. It made me question what I was even doing all that time.
Yes, it’s my fault, and I’m not denying that. But this isn’t a question; it’s a statement.
If she calls you a “friend” in front of others, that’s all you need to know. Don’t waste your time anymore. I’ll find someone else to love, someone who actually wants to be loved.
Stop clinging to fantasies. That’s all it was—a comforting lie to avoid facing rejection.
You need to feel that pain to learn and stop being careless with your heart. Be kinder to yourself. That’s what I’m going to do.

Last updated on:2024-10-25T15:47:12+05:30

Comments (6)

EndofLove
EndofLove 1 y ago

A new beginning is waiting for you. Embrace it with open arms.

LonelyLurker

It takes courage to be honest about your feelings, even if it's painful.

NeonBoy
NeonBoy 1 y ago

It's time to close that chapter and start a new one. You deserve someone who values you.

DrimDawn01
DrimDawn01 1 y ago

It's hard to let go, but sometimes it's necessary.

SadlyMadly
SadlyMadly 1 y ago

I know My heart hurts

Cameron
Cameron 1 y ago

Positive thoughts and healing vibes 🫶🏼