How do I stop messing with guys who never actually loved me? I’m so over getting my heart broken scared of heartbreak syndrome. Like, how do people even find their soulmates? I feel lost and tbh me trying to find mine isn’t working. It hurts. How do I stop dating guys who just use me?
Last updated on:2024-12-02T17:08:49+05:30
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focus more on their vibe than just what you're into. not saying looks don't matter but maybe try being friends first and see how they really are
Yo babe you gotta grab this book on Amazon called Bossing Your Boundaries. It’s for women who keep picking the wrong guys and trust me I had no idea why until I read it. Then it all clicked. I used to be that girl always drawn to the wrong ones but this book really opened my eyes. Check it out it’s by Kellie Davis.
If they’re not doing anything to keep you why are you trying so hard to stick around? Staying with the wrong person just means less time for the right one.
I still want to know what he used you for?
Care about uh first.
idk about long term but short term is all about looks. feels like both guys and girls will treat you bad if they’re not into your vibe. i feel like i’d fall for the first girl who showed me any kind of kindness if she was cute.
There’s no such thing as a soulmate, just find a chill honest dude who’s down to put in the effort for a relationship
You should really work on building a stronger sense of self and start noticing those unhealthy attachment patterns. Like take some time to grow past them. Maybe hit pause on dating for a bit and figure out why you end up with people who aren't good for you, so you can attract better vibes next time.
you can't force ppl to love you it has to be genuine
@DipsitGray for sure, this one's pretty important too