I can't stand when people say stuff like "Don’t cry over someone there’s other fish in the sea." Like bro that just ignores how deep and spiritual love can be. Finding that kind of connection is mad hard. For me I gotta feel emotionally and spiritually connected to someone to even think about being with them. If that vibe isn’t there it’s a no go. So when people act like it’s easy to find someone like that I’m just like... you don’t get it. That’s why heartbreak hits me so hard it feels like my whole world’s crashing like I’ll never feel that kind of connection again.
Last updated on:2024-12-24T16:30:43+05:30
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There's plenty of fish but they're all kinda dead
For sure. Real love is rare to find. You can be around other people but sometimes the vibe just isn’t the same.
And it can set someone up to fail like what if they don’t find someone better? What’s next? people who say there’s plenty of fish in the sea probably don’t love others fully and are cool with letting people go when it’s convenient for them.
I think it's chill to realize everyone in your life shows up for a reason and when they leave that's for a reason too. Not being able to let go is kinda a problem.
Those vibes where you feel same-brain energy with someone are so rare fr. It’s like this deep sense of safety comfort and peace with that one person. Connections like that are just so pure ❤️
People who say stuff like this don’t really love they just latch onto the first person who’ll stick around for money sex a place to stay or just to not be alone. They don’t get the real feelings behind love.
I always wondered how some women find a guy to marry so quick while I can’t even find someone who loves me back. Simple they don’t care, they just want a man any man. Do they actually love him? Nah
I can't stand people who say that either. Like yeah there’s plenty of fish but y’all forget the ocean is massive af.
lol drunk fish vibes
I feel you. There’s so many things people say during a breakup that just don’t hit right. This one’s gotta be one of the dumbest and most overused. bro, we’re not fish. Who even started that? It’s giving unhelpful vibes and feels like they don’t care. If you don’t know what to say just say nothing.
I lost my girl back and I still feel it every day. I’ve never loved anyone like that that deep. I still do. You can’t just bounce into another relationship like nothing happened. What we had was so real emotionally, spiritually, mentally, intimately, and yeah, sexually too. I need all of that to vibe with someone romantically.
I can’t just grab some random girl and be like you’re my person now. That’s not how this works. It takes time to build something real and you don’t feel that same spark with just anyone. The way people and those dating coaches act like it’s so easy? Nah. Dating after something like this is draining and straight-up frustrating.
We ain’t fish 😂😂 idk why that hit so hard guess I’m just not normal. But you’re not wrong super relatable
@SweetCandy Haha no worries that's a funny line fr thanks feels like so many of us get it
I feel like it's easy to say that until we're in that situation ourselves. I've gotten so used to being let down by people who aren’t even bad people that now I try to block it out when I get treated like I don’t matter. I know those hurts are piling up in my heart like some big unbreakable pot made of clay and metal but honestly I don’t think people who devalue us are worth wasting time crying over anymore. I used to do that a lot but not anymore. I’m still surprised at how selfish good people can be how they’ll drain you look for something better or be so caught up in their own struggles that they can’t give us what we actually deserve.
Yeah I get where you're coming from. I stay guarded cause I'm scared of getting hurt. When I open up I feel super vulnerable and when someone hits that spot it feels like a knife in my chest. And you're right, crying nonstop over someone who doesn’t love you back isn’t good for you. I’m trying to control my crying now it’s getting better but deep down it still stings. It’s just kinda locked away now so it doesn’t mess with me as much.
@cnfidntchic I feel hurt when someone I care about feels like they gotta hide their problems or just dip for a while. That doesn’t feel like a real connection to me and it makes me think they don’t like me enough to be open. from what you’re saying and what I’m saying, it’s like this cycle where both people just end up pulling away.
I know I hold onto a lot of the pain that comes with losing that connection. But I’ve kinda learned to keep it pushing because I’m so used to being let down even by people who are really kind.
there’s like no one. I legit struggle to find ppl interesting at all tbh most just aren’t.
I can’t vibe with this fr... people gotta be more mindful
I feel this 100%. Nothing has ever annoyed me more like she was just some object you could swap out.
Nah I loved her for who she was not just she was a woman.
And don’t even get me started on the whole abundance mindset thing. I don’t just catch feelings for anyone that’s not how it works.
it’s so unrealistic to act like you can just detach like that. Unless you’re legit a psychopath you’re gonna cry and feel it when you lose someone you love.
If you can detach that easily idk it feels like you’re not even really living.