I care about him a lot and don’t wanna see him hurt or blindsided outta nowhere
His current one’s an LDR with a 20F who had a super traumatic and abusive ex. He helped her move on they bonded and started dating like 2 months after her breakup
He’s only met her once. It’s been a year and they’re already talking marriage family and moving in (idk how). They argue quite a bit to
this is the 4th time he’s thought he found the one. All of them ended badly and my gut’s kinda screaming at me
I’ve tried bringing up my concerns for him but he’s like I know what it looks like but you don’t know what we’re really like. He’s a good friend but I feel like he’s stuck in a cycle
wat do you think? Have you seen this kinda thing? How do people get out of it? How do I even approach him?
Tbh, I don’t think I’ll go through 5 relationships in my life idk how he’s managed.
Last updated on:2024-12-30T16:23:13+05:30
Comments (8)
Maybe he's afraid of commitment.
Sometimes you just have to let people learn from their own mistakes.
It's tough to see a friend in a toxic cycle.
Have you tried talking to him about his past relationships?
Maybe he's afraid of being alone?
Sounds like he needs to slow down.
Yikes, that sounds rough. Hope he's okay.
feels kinda codependent. if he's 20 I’m guessing these relationships haven’t lasted more than six months and that’s a bit sus. But honestly there’s nothing wrong with loving hard and fearless like he does.
We both know this is probs gonna crash and burn but he can’t see it yet. He’s all in and gonna try to make it work. When it flops that’s the moment to chat with him about not handing out his heart so quick. Right now he’s way too deep in it.