I got ghosted by someone I thought was my true love. We were together for 2 year and I can’t help but wonder if she ever gets how much it hurt or still hurts. does she even think about it? Idk maybe after almost a year people who ghost just never cared to begin with. But a part of me hopes one day she’ll have that moment and realize how much damage you can leave behind.
I can move on knowing my true love left me but it’s so hard to deal with the way it happened.
Being ghosted messed me up like anxiety self-esteem issues always overthinking what went wrong how I could’ve been better and tbh what even made her decide to leave like that. No closure just silence. I’ll never fully understand why she decided to ghost me and take a piece of me with her forever.
If someone says they loved you but can’t even give you a proper goodbye that says a lot about their character and it’s not good.
Last updated on:2024-12-31T15:40:11+05:30
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I keep getting picked up and dropped by this girl. When I tell people she’s messing me around blowing hot and cold they’re like just leave it if she actually likes you she’ll come to you. And yeah I know they’re right but I like her way too much for how she treats me. She makes excuses plays the victim maybe even makes stuff up. Instead of telling her I’m done when she messages I just go along with it. Like today we talked earlier I messaged her and now… nothing.
The worst part is we spent months getting close she was all in, day after day and I fell hard. Now she’s just switched up. being ghosted would be easier at least it’d end the misery. This whole dangling the carrot thing is so much worse. I know I need to stand up for myself but it’s tough when it’s still kinda new and it already feels like she’s taken that away from me.
If she’s the type who never admits she’s wrong or needs to be told to apologize then nah.
My bestie who ghosted me was like that. Dude couldn’t say sorry. Anytime I said I was hurt he’d hit me with a sarcastic what hurt? It’s been 4 months now and I’ve accepted we’re done. I still miss our daily convos tho but it is what it is.
That's super toxic disrespectful and immature. Most ghosters are dealing with their own issues.
Getting ghosted isn’t on you especially when the connection was deep. They owed you the decency of closure even if they wanted out.
Remember it’s not about you. Even if they had reasons not speaking up makes those reasons invalid. Nothing you could’ve done would’ve changed it.
Hope you find peace. It’s a lot to process.
If she did that she wasn’t really your true love
They don’t even get how much they’re messing themselves up by avoiding their problems
I got ghosted and ghosters are just cowards. They can’t handle being called out or dealing with confrontation. It’s gonna catch up to them eventually but will they admit it? Who knows it really depends. Sucks to accept but they just don’t care.
People are defined by their actions. She ghosted you that’s messed up. Yeah she’s not a good person.
I feel you. I got ghoste months ago out of nowhere after a long relationship too.
Ghosting is straight up cruel especially when someone knows all the mental stuff you're dealing with. He made me look dumb and like I was the crazy one. Gaslighting was his thing and now I have no one to talk to about it. Haven’t eaten or slept for more than an hour in like 2 weeks.
Take care of yourself alright? Don’t stress over what they think it doesn’t matter. You’re the priority here. Focus on healing and your own wellbeing and trust me them leaving was actually a win for you.
You said it but yeah it might be them kinda punishing you for not meeting their expectations so they get all cold and selfish when they dip. I’ve been there. It’s raw it hurts. Just try to focus on taking care of yourself tho. I lost like 10 lbs of muscle when it happened. Finally got it back but honestly I wish I just forced myself to eat and sleep. I hope sharing your pain helps a little. Not everyone gets it but a lot of people do. Some even worse. You’re not alone. I really hope you get through this dark time.
I feel like ghosters just don't care enough to realize they hurt someone. Guess it just wasn't meant to be in the end
Yeah this is what I meant by the last part. Like the logical answer is they probably don't but it makes me wonder if at least once in some rare moment they don’t feel it all at once. It’d be kinda inhuman to not feel it sometimes
It’s not even hurt anymore it’s straight up psycho rage now