Even like 10 almost 11 months later with zero signs of her splitting with the rebound guy after I broke up with her people are still like Just wait she will try to come back at some point. They always realize the grass ain’t greener and when they do they come crawling back. But here’s the thing we were only together for just under a year and a half so in six more months she’ll have been with him just as long as she was with me. I can’t imagine her still thinking about me past that, or like people say that she’s never stopped thinking about me since the breakup.
I wouldn’t even care if people just said, Hey she might come back but she also might not so don’t bank on it and then dropped it if it seemed unlikely. But nah it’s always Just wait it’s inevitable she’ll reach out again.
At this point I feel like I’ve moved on. I haven’t been on here in forever till now but this one thing keeps messing with me. I just want someone to straight up tell me she’s never coming back. Even though part of me wants her to just to know she got some karma for what she did I can’t keep living with this fake hope.
Last updated on:2024-12-31T16:58:41+05:30
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I feel like it's super tough to let go of hope at first and people are just trying to ease you into moving on. Relationships are like a drug and heartbreak hits like withdrawal.
Who even says that? People are so dumb. She’s not coming back. Time to move on.
Ah man I feel you. Spent most of the past year tryn kill off hope. It's mostly gone now and I feel way better. Just gotta push through the year mark next week.
The whole no contact gets them back thing? Doesn't help at all. It’s great for moving on though.
Still wild how the person whose opinion I cared about the most shouldn’t even matter anymore. When my ex ended things they really made it sound like it was all on me. Took me forever to realize that was more about their own flaws and needing to feel justified than anything about me.
Sounds like we both gotta keep working on not giving any weight to what they might think.
For sure man not trying sound bitter saying I want her to get karma or anything but I broke up with her after dealing with toxic vibes for the last two months of our 1year thing and she acted all devastated for like three weeks before finding someone new and straight up rubbing it in my face. I didn’t deserve that I don’t think so yeah sometimes it still stings thinking she just got away with it.
@TrendON She might’ve slid by but you bounced from it.
Heres some advice that really helped me. A year later when it was clear we weren’t getting back together I just gave up. I was like Guess I’m just gonna love him forever and suddenly it hit me. am I seriously gonna keep loving someone who treats me like this? And thats when I actually started to heal instead of just spiraling. Not gonna lie after this you always end up with someone better. Sounds cheesy and cliché but its true.
I’ve heard that too like I’ll meet someone better. But it sucks coz even with everything I know now she’s still my dream girl in almost every way. Im still shocked someone that pretty and fun even liked me. I keep picturing a girl kinda like her just with a few changes but idk…