Sometimes silence is the only closure you’ll ever get or need. My ex and I were together for 2 years and one dumb fight ended with him breaking up over text (classic avoidant move). This went down in October. I tried reaching out after but he ghosted me with zero explanation. When he broke it off I sent one last text then blocked him everywhere well except one spot (cuz I was dumb enough to think he’d hit me up again lol).
It’s been almost 3 months now and guess what? Dude hasn’t reached out once. All I’ve seen is him switching his Insta profile pic to some Xmas vibes (yeah you can still peep profile pics even if they’re blocked).
Maybe he’s hurt maybe not. All I know is what I see and he looks like he’s thriving. And get this we were planning to get married (what a joke).
Anyway sometimes you just gotta let go. Dumpers stay on a high for a while and maybe they’ll realize what they lost. They might reach out but don’t count on it. Even if they do never go back unless they’re genuinely worth it. And let’s be real if they left once they’ll probably do it again. Move on.
This community has been such a lifesaver for me. I hope everyone here finds their person the one who loves respects and helps you grow not someone who plays mind games.
Last updated on:2025-01-10T12:50:04+05:30
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My ex hit me up after 3 months no contact. We're trying to work it out but she's not really trying fr. Feels like she's just breadcrumbing. sometimes it's better if they don’t reach out cuz low effort hurts more.
Breadcrumbing is trash
Just remember hurt people hurt people
Closure is just another internet buzzword. You're so right it's over and that's the closure. Not everything in life wraps up all neat and perfect.
Just a reminder if they wanted to they would.