This year I’m done caring about people whether it’s friends or loved ones. I care too much and it just ends up hurting me. I become everyone’s punching bag and no one ever checks if I’m actually okay. I need emotional support too like someone just asking me how are you really? I even try changing myself for others to make them happy but that’s on me and it hurts. I’m over it I’m done caring.
Last updated on:2025-01-16T15:55:48+05:30
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You’re in charge of your own happiness and that’s it
You can’t make everyone happy and sometimes what’s best for you might hurt someone else... but that’s okay As long as you’re not purposely hurting anyone there’s no reason to feel bad. They might be upset for a bit but in the long run, it’s what’s best for them too. No one should stay in a relationship out of pity. They like you have the right to move on and find someone who truly vibes with them and makes them happy.
Growth hurts but pain is part of the process and true happiness and peace are the best rewards.
Stop trying to be what others want you to be. Just be you and your people will find you. Good luck
Same honestly. Got amazing friends and fam who get all the love I have to give. I love making ppl happy and nothing’s changing that. But nah no more giving my energy to toxic relationships. Done with giving everything to liars, avoidants, narcissists and mama's boys who dip when things get tough. Can’t trust my heart anymore. Just focusing on being the best mom to my boys and that's it
I don’t know you but I know you’re way bigger than whatever life throws at you. hit me up if you’re ever in that dark place alone we all need someone to lean on 🙃
100% do it.
I feel that. I've given others and things more love than I gave myself. Decided to choose me I get being vulnerable and loving unconditionally it’s brought me pain but also some joy I wouldn’t have experienced otherwise. Still I think it's time to find balance cause the pain’s been too much. If it means not showing others the love I did before I’m good with that. Wishing you peace. focus on working on yourself how you see yourself and how you talk to yourself. Hope it gets better for you.
You good tho? Honestly
no I feel drained by everything in my life. No matter how hard I try I can't seem to pull myself out of it for the past 6 months.
You gotta put yourself first Sounds like you've been draining your energy for others. Time to pull back and take care of you for once. Do it
I’ve never really put myself first... you’re right I’m super drained from everything love friends all of it. Sometimes I think ending it would bring peace but I know I want to get better. I don’t wanna keep finding comfort in that.
@Xopo012 you matter you’re worthy of feeling good and it’s cool to take care of yourself