I just ended a 2-year relationship a few days ago

I just ended a 2-year relationship a few days ago. Been thinking about it for a while now and I’m obviously devastated. My emotions feel kinda stuck. Haven’t really cried doesn’t feel real yet.
My first breakup was 3 years ago and it was the worst thing ever. I ended that one too. Was broken for like 6-12 months after super emotional cried a lot.
At first I was okay kinda like I am now. But then it got bad real quick.
Can’t remember when the numbness went away or when I started feeling sad. Just feel like it’s coming but idk when. Kinda scared to be a mess again.
Maybe this time will be different?
Anyone else ended a relationship and can remember when you went from numb/relieved to second-guessing everything and feeling lonely?

Last updated on:2025-01-17T13:14:28+05:30

Comments (8)

JessaMy
JessaMy 1 y ago

Don't compare this to your last breakup.

RagaCC
RagaCC 1 y ago

Lean on your support system.

Isobel09
Isobel09 1 y ago

It gets better, I promise.

ImogenIona
ImogenIona 1 y ago

Don't be afraid to feel your feelings.

OPRah23
OPRah23 1 y ago

It hits you in waves trust me.

Lilmisscutie

The numbness is a weird stage.

Attitudediva

It's okay to not be okay.

SadMEE
SadMEE 1 y ago

Ugh been there. It sucks.