So I started liking this girl in 11th grade and the first time I saw her I was hooked like obsessed for the whole year. Let's call her N and her bestie at the time was H. Since I knew H before N I told her about my feelings and she said we’d never work out and stuff like that. Then H convinced me to go for another girl D so I did (I get manipulated easily lol). I dated D for a month but then another friend said if I wasn't feeling it I should end it and go after who I really liked so I broke up with D and realized I’d always liked N. But that went on for a year and I had like 2-3 other crushes along the way which made me look like the guy with too many crushes and kinda messed up my rep. But now here’s where it gets interesting let's call the girl I’m really talking about TG.
I didn’t even realize I had feelings for TG for almost 2 years but looking back she used to bully me from the start of 11th grade and told me straight up I didn’t have a chance with her. I was all about N at the time but TG would always sit near me during breaks and I started caring for her without even noticing. I still had a thing for N but I was lowkey starting to like TG. She used to mess with me and I liked triggering her even though I was scared of her. I knew I didn’t have a chanc but maybe I could’ve if I realized my feelings sooner.
When we went on a trek that’s when I realized what was going on but I ignored it and tried to bury it with other girls but that didn’t work. Then in October last year I finally admitted to myself that I liked TG but by then my image was ruined in her eyes. We’re still friends but she just doesn’t see me that way. Still, there were moments – like during the trek she was being super nice to me and that didn’t feel like just being good friends. She was close to me the whole time and even at a hangout she stuck by me more than her bestie even though there was a gap between them. I know this all sounds childish but I’m turning 18 soon so I guess I’m still figuring things out. I love TG more than anything and I just want advice from anyone who's realized they were too late for someone. How did you get over that? Thanks if you read this it really means a lot. Just hoping TG never sees this because if she does she might never talk to me again.
Last updated on:2025-01-29T11:37:15+05:30
Comments (8)
You're still young you have plenty of time.
You were way too caught up in the moment.
You overcomplicated things big time.
You were so blindsided.
Major missed opportunity vibes.
H was kinda toxic tbh.
You were majorly sidetracked.
Sounds like a classic case of friendzone vibes.