I’ve never dated before was just looking for someone who vibes with my values. This year I found someone at uni who gets it shares the same mindset and I ended up catching feelings. But he didn’t. I get why he’ll never see me as more than a friendearly on I was just protecting myself and acted in ways I shouldn’t have. Life’s been tough for me so I became super reserved. All the stuff I’ve been through left scars that most people won’t get and I know he’ll never like me the way I want. So I’m letting go of my feelings after coming so close to what I’ve been waiting for. I just hope the universe gives me another shot at real love.
Last updated on:2025-01-29T14:56:51+05:30
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Lean on your support system. Talk to friends and family.
Self love is key. Focus on your own happiness.
The universe has your back. Trust the process.
You're not alone. Many people have been there.
Relatable AF. Finding someone who gets you is hard.
I feel you fr same thing pretty much happened to me. She found someone else n told me I was wrecked but we all stuck around which messed me up even more bc I couldn’t heal right. Now I feel even worse than I did before. We decided to take some space and I really hope we can still be friends later. Idk if I’ll still feel that way once I’ve processed everything tho. I haven’t made much progress tbh still got a long way to go. Not even emotionally ready for a friendship w her yet but it’s only been like a week since we took space.
It’s gonna take time and that’s okay. Just hope she still wants to be friends when it’s all said and done.
Originally meant to share a bit abt myself n give some solid advice but this kinda turned into a vent my bad lol.
But fr you’ll find someone who checks all your boxes n actually deserves you too just make sure you take the time to process everything first. Healing takes time but you got this.