I love him fr but things got too serious and then he hits me with I don’t see a future with you idk if I can love you like??? After saying he wants marriage kids growing old together?? And now he’s leaving so he doesn’t hurt me more. Now I’m just here lowkey scared of my own mind post-breakup depression and life feeling empty. How do I not fall into the darkness? I’m actually terrified pls help.
Last updated on:2025-01-30T13:57:31+05:30
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I'm gonna guess this isn't your first breakup and it probably sucked. But remember that time when it felt like you'd never get over it? And yet you did. You’ll do it again.
You’ll pick yourself up, dust it off, and keep moving forward. Time doesn’t stop for anyone, and we only have one life. So why waste it on someone who doesn’t wanna be around? Yeah it’s gonna hurt but what else is there to do? Nothing. Just gotta move on, that’s the only choice left. Moving on doesn’t have to be that tough though if you remind yourself that you're worthy of love and you'll get it one day. You ARE enough. Those are the facts. So what’s your next move?
good luck I’ve been there. Many times. when I got blindsided by an affair. But I still gotta live. Still gotta eat work and laugh again. This pain won’t last forever and it doesn’t.
Sending you all the good vibes.
Hey, that’s rough. Maybe if you stayed it would've ended even worse. A lot of guys are too scared to end things like this. I don’t agree with him saying you’re too much to handle especially after hearing he wanted a family and to grow old with you. No one wants to be alone when we’re older and we all want kids. Feels like you’ve been played and betrayed. If you two do get back together first figure out your values and dealbreakers. Those are what get tested in a real relationship. I’ve been in your shoes on both sides and it sucks. It's so good you're reaching out for help. Keep doing that until the hurt fades.
Think about it... you're overreacting. People have been breaking up since forever. It's gonna take time but you're not gonna die. Block him and go no contact... there's plenty of dudes out there.