How do you even deal when your person just dips outta nowhere? Like we didn’t even talk ab it he just decided on the spot. Bro was so sweet on our trip then outta nowhere it’s like I got tossed aside. I didn’t wanna leave but it’s like I had no choice. How do you get through this kinda heartbreak n confusion?
Last updated on:2025-01-31T10:24:45+05:30
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i'm really sorry you're going through this. not gonna sugarcoat it. my ex did the same to me. literally the day before, we had this amazing lil weekend trip everything felt perfect so in love. next day i walk up to the carport and see her loading her suitcases taking almost everything with her. i ask what's going on and she just looks at me so sad so mad and says L i’ll always love you then gets in her car and leaves. that was 6 months ago. haven’t heard a single word since.
if you really loved your person like i did this is gonna be the worst pain ever. not just cause of the breakup but how it happened. i felt every emotion at once anger sadness betrayal confusion guilt shame like i was the worst person alive all in an instant.
best advice i got? first grab a few rolls of toilet paper and just cry till you physically can’t anymore. it’ll hit in waves so be ready. then get some therapy lean on your fam and friends don’t go through this alone.
3 months later it still hurts but it does get better. what helps me is letting myself feel it. when the pain hits i cry it out. i stay busy with hobbies and work. helping others keeps me grounded makes me feel human again.
just know this is gonna be the deepest pain you’ve ever felt but also know you will get through it if you let yourself grieve.
if you ever need to vent or just talk hit me up. sending you the biggest hug. stay strong.
appreciate u sharing fr i just don’t get why this had to happen to us i even went back to our old place but without him there it just felt empty left a letter poured my heart out but i still got no answers when we broke up he didn’t even say it straight up just typed a note on his phone told me to read it and that was it no closure just reasons that lowkey made no sense now i keep wondering if his ex from eight years ago came back but idk and honestly i don’t even wanna bring it up to ppl who know us both some part of me is still holding on hoping we find our way back