I (18M) wanna end things with this girl (21F) I’ve been dating for 2 months. she’s super romantic n high energy when it comes to intimacy but I just can’t keep up. I’m studying law n my first semester grades were kinda bad cuz I was spending too much time going on dates n hooking up. this is my first serious thing like this so balancing it with studying n working out has been rough.
I actually tried breaking up a few weeks ago but since we go to the same college n have the same friend group I wanted to be nice about it n said I’d love to stay friends. but I think she felt humiliated by getting friend-zoned n started acting kinda mean. next morning we decided to try again n adapt by focusing more on studying. at first I thought it’d work but now that the semester is starting I’m freaking out about my grades tanking again. plus she’s almost done with college has solid grades n can dip at the end of the year while I still gotta put in work.
we have a date planned when we’re both back at college in a few days. should I just end it that evening or slowly distance myself so it’s not as harsh? kinda unsure how to go about it.
Last updated on:2025-01-31T13:51:53+05:30
Comments (6)
Focus on your future.
Try to have the conversation in a calm and respectful way.
Honesty is the best policy. Be upfront with her about how you're feeling.
Your grades are important.
Don't let a relationship derail your goals
Tough situation man. Prioritizing yourself is key especially in school.
Don’t end it set boundaries.