my ex who was or maybe still is my best friend started dating someone after I thought we got super close (prob not the place to get into that) I can't get over her I'm still crazy in love but this has me super depressed n emotional. I've been keeping it all in for her sake n the ppl around me but ngl I've had some rlly dark thoughts ab hurting ppl n myself. I already workout n talk to friends (sorta like family) but I'm so heartbroken every time I see smth ab her. at the same time I don't wanna lose her she's my best friend I love her. any advice? I prob already know most of it but I'm rlly hurting rn
Last updated on:2025-01-31T14:07:42+05:30
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Love sucks
welp i already figured that out
@Chaiohra it’ll get easier bud. it’s normal to have those obsessive thoughts after heartbreak but they’ll eventually fade. just cut off all reminders. go ghost mode. be dead to them and they to you. throw them into the abyss of your memories and if you can’t force it just let time do its thing. your brain’s got you even when it doesn’t feel like it.
@CameraShy the thought of her being sad is the only thing keeping me going. hurting her or breaking her heart like she did to mine would just mess up everything I still feel for her
@Chaiohra lol sounds like you’re starting to not vibe with her so you’re healing