What I'm going through in my relationship is super chaotic idk if it's abusive or if I'm the one messing up or what. But like it’s not normal for your boyfriend the guy who's supposed to be loving and caring to tell you to fuck off and call you problematic. The worst part is I still love him and have begged for us to get back together like multiple times. Why do I keep doing that? I honestly don’t know. Everything seems fine for a sec and then boom it feels like the end of the world. Just needed to vent.
Last updated on:2025-02-03T14:36:53+05:30
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It’s not cool for your partner to say fuck you to you. I get that sometimes things get said in the heat of the moment but that’s way too harsh for someone you’re supposed to love. Especially if it’s a regular thing.
The longer you stay the more confident he’s gonna get.
My ex never talked to me like that. She actually used to accuse me of saying messed up stuff (like pathetic, childish etc.). But she was controlling and toxic the whole time we were together. Nothing changed. Then she bounced and I went after her cause I missed the good times and was just lonely.
Trust me chasing someone who should be treating you better will just wreck you. Save yourself by leaving him and not looking back. They always end up leaving anyway when they treat us with that kind of disrespect. Get out first and leave with your dignity intact.
how'd u move on? what did you do?
@justtME My ex told me I should find someone else. I know I was toxic before and I get that now which is why I'm trying to be a better person for him. Like I'm trying to be more understanding be soft, and respect his busy days. Last night I told him I don't feel the love anymore since we barely talk haven't had a call it's been a month since we saw each other no updates or sweet words. I told him he should be sweet again that's all I’m asking. And then he said I wish I could be in your position which just made me feel so sad.
@justtME I haven’t moved on yet. Still super torn up over them. They were mad frustrating sometimes hella unreasonable but they were still mine. The fact that we were each other’s first loves probably has something to do with why I can’t fully move on.
I guess what I’m trying to say is unless you bounce you’re gonna keep putting up with the same stuff. I could be mad moody super anxious outside and not stable with money. My ex dipped cause they knew I wasn’t changing if I was I would’ve by now and now they’re living their best life. They went through it after the breakup but don’t regret it. That might be you.
that’s not it babe. he doesn’t love you
I'm trying to find the courage to break up with him, but just when I think things are good, I'm hit with this fear of being alone.
@lizzaWon babe we broke up last night im scared to be alone too my heart hurts and i feel paralyzed when u see the red flag u know what u gotta do