I've been doin alright takin it day by day. Went to a bday party for my friend's kid today n honestly watchin her with her man n baby was so cute I was so happy for them. But halfway thru I had to dip... started thinkin bout how that’s a milestone I wanted me n him to reach. I just know it would've been such a good day with both our fams n friends vibin. I never even pictured myself as a mom till him.
And to top it off my friend's man looks like my ex so yeah my emotions did me dirty. Started the day feelin so good—new fit makeup n hair on point now I'm ending it cryin into my pillow just thinkin bout how I won’t get to have that w him anymore. It's been 4 months post BU n I feel like I'm bein too hard on myself bc I’ve been doin okay but this just hit different.
It also sucks knowin I still get these random waves of sadness over him n he probably doesn’t.
Last updated on:2025-02-05T14:05:40+05:30
Comments (7)
Focus on the present. Enjoy the good moments.
Healing is a non-linear process. Some days will be harder than others.
Distract yourself.Watch a movie read a book or hang out with friends.
Self-care is key. Treat yourself to something nice.
He's missing out. You're a catch.
Don't be too hard on yourself.
You're healing.
Relatable AF. Breakups are hard especially when you see others moving on.