m 27F he’s 28M. I’ve been in a bunch of relationships before even a long-term one that lasted 2 years but I’ve never vibed with someone like this. He’s everything—ambitious, funny, caring—makes me proud. We always have the best time together, and yeah the s** was next level. We’ve been in each other’s lives for a year, and I finally ended things a couple days ago.
We started off casual but always knew it was something special, it was intense. He lives like 3.5 hours away so that didn’t help. We tried to make it official, but he said he had too much going on (school, personal life, just a lot) and couldn’t handle the stress of a relationship.
I ended it knowing he wasn’t gonna change his mind and I couldn’t keep holding onto false hope.
I get it, but it still hurts so bad. He admitted he’s still sleeping with other people, which I kinda knew, but hearing it out loud hit different.
I feel sick, like actually. It hurts so much. I’m scared he ruined sex for me and I’ll never find that again. I’ve never been in this situation before and I can’t stop picturing him with other people.
Any advice, hard truths whatever I’ll take it just please be nice.
Last updated on:2025-02-07T15:57:50+05:30
Comments (4)
Keep your head up. Better things are coming.
He's missing out. You deserve someone who prioritizes you.
It's okay to feel this way. Allow yourself to grieve.
Girl I feel you fr.. not gonna lie it's gonna be rough like real bad.. but listen he def didn’t ruin sex for you forever.. just try not to fall into hookups bc that might just make it worse n hit even harder.. I know it’s the most basic advice ever but fr find hobbies do new things just focus on yourself.. and trust me block him everywhere delete the pics quit cold turkey.. if you don’t you’re just gonna make it 10x harder on yourself.. you got this tho you’re strong keep pushing ❤️